Is it wrong or is it just the way it is ? Benefit question.?

I'm afraid that it is the case and agree it is so wrong. The benefits system in general is outdated and unfair. Whilst I appreciate you are frustrated I feel it is unfair for you to attack single mothers as a group too. Many have become single mothers through no fault of their own - e.g. divorced, widowed and are as frustrated with the system as you are. We shouldn't be fighting each other - but we should be fighting the system through our MP's etc