14 yrs old when and how to tell parents about uality?

1 to all the people who are saying she's young and confuse. SHUT THE HELL UP. Studies have shown that kids are realizing their ualities at a younger age now-a-days. #2 I came out to my parents when I was 14 because I felt i could no longer hide it and I didn't want to. If you feel you can't keep it to yourself anymore then tell them. Also if you just tell your mom your dad will probably find out so tell them at the same time, that way hopefully your mom can calm your dad down.